

I know the pain lmao, I moved from Signal to XMPP to Matrix back to XMPP and then found Delta. It is pretty good so far though, my favorite part is that “normals” can use it easily if I can get them to install it, the biggest hurdle still is the “normal” people who say “aNoThEr ApP fOr TeXtInG?!?!” but those same people have no problem installing an app for 16 cents off of a McChicken.
Like, not that they’re burnt out on me trying apps, I did my testing with small groups, these are people who had no idea of that struggle, they just ONLY want to use iMessage because they suck and are lazy, they legit said “instead of me installing a free app, you should ditch GrapheneOS and spend a grand on a phone that spies on you.”




It’s meeting their needs so far for sure, the only issue I’ve run into is that I can’t location share with iPhones, but I’m the only one that cares lol.
Definitely look into it before you move, it’s more suited towards family/friends, for instance “group chats” don’t have an admin/mod or anything, all users have the same power and can kick any other user. Technically both matrix and XMPP can do “more” and if you have them already using XMPP it might just be better to stay, in my case I couldn’t get them to use XMPP if I tried lol, “too ugly,” “looks old,” “what the fuck do you mean ‘enable omemo,’” etc.
That’s my favorite part, when I do convince someone to sign up, I just send an invite link, they click it, it opens their app store to DC, and sometimes they have to click it again after they’ve made an acct to get linked to me but they can just handle it, no walkthrough needed.
And they keep focusing on making that easier for me, you can choose your own relays and add multiple for resiliency if one goes down, but that’s out of the scope of the normals to figure out so I just let them do default. Well, with a recent update they now default to using multiple relays from their list instead of just their “default” nine.testrun.org, and soon they plan to auto-upgrade any accts made before the change (accts that only have nine.testrun as a relay). So now I don’t even have to worry about upgrading their accts to add extra relays, they’re going to do it for me!
It’s definitely the easiest secure messenger I’ve used so far. It’s not a discord replacement unfortunately but if you just need a chat app without too much of a focus on groups of strangers, it works. There’s not much of a social media aspect to it (which I see as a positive lol), but there is “channels” (like, I follow a linux news channel on DC), those can be neat.
More importantly, delete uTorrent YESTERDAY, it’s no good anymore since about 2009. The replacement is qBittorrent!